Whew, how
times flies! Another minute, another hour, another day, another week, another
month, another year. Time passes us by so quickly. And many of us often move right along with
it. There’s so much to see and so much to do. We sometimes move so fast to get
to the next thing that we fail to see every precious moment in site. Moving and
shaking is a great thing, but we must move cautiously. When we move too fast,
there’s a possibility that we will blur the lines.
Did you know
that there’s a thin line between gratefulness and greed?
The definition of grateful
is “warmly or
deeply appreciative
of kindness or benefits received.”
I am grateful
for food, shelter, and clothing. I am grateful for physical health and peace of
mind. I am grateful for family and friends. I am grateful for employment. I am
grateful for all these and many other things.
Yet, I still
move with the speed of light. I can’t seem to sit still or in silence. I still
seek more. I still desire more. I still strive for more. I still expect more.
That’s makes
sense though. Right? The way I see it, wanting more moves me beyond
complacency. It keeps me in a place of growth.
The issue
though is knowing when enough is enough. Wait….is there such a thing as
‘enough?’ If there is, who decides my enough?
Who decides your enough?
Each
individual sees life through their own lens. If it were to be defined, enough would look different based on
race, gender, socio-economic background, political affiliation, education
level, and a host of other factors.
So that’s
where the concept of greed comes in. What feels like gratefulness to some,
looks like greed to others. Greed is
defined as “excessive or rapacious desire, especially for wealth or possessions.”
Greed can
appear to present itself when one is asking for more, seeking for more, wanting
more. It’s an issue of perception. How society views the choices people make
can sometimes paint the wrong picture.
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The
individual having their third plate of food sometimes appears greedy for food.
Perhaps she is simply thankful for a hot, delicious meal after hours of
training for her sport.
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The
individual with stable, fruitful employment consistently applying for higher
paying job opportunities can appear greedy for money. What if he is simply
seeking more income to financially support family members or to make more
charitable contributions?
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The
same individual may appear greedy for power if promotions are constantly being
sought. Consider the possibility that she desires more knowledge or greater
opportunity to provoke change.
There are
fine distinctions in those examples. So much so that the impetus for wanting
more cannot be seen by the naked eye. It’s an internal driver that is often uncommunicated.
The problem is that perception (of others) becomes reality. Does that even
matter though? Maybe, maybe not.
What does
matter is that you have a personal gut check about what drives you. Think hard
and long about the things that propel you into action. What do you want? Why do
you want it? What is the ultimate goal? Even if no ill-intent exists, ensure
that your desires don’t become excessive and all-consuming.
Catch that!
There is nothing wrong with wanting more. It’s the ‘excessive and rapacious’
desire that makes a difference. Know when enough is enough. Enough can only be defined by you and it
can only be determined once you know the end goal.
That’s the
distinction between gratefulness and greed. Gratefulness is often the
springboard. Once we appreciate what we have and where we have landed, we often
recognize a greater potential. We seek to fulfil that potential by asking more
questions, taking on more initiatives, fostering more relationship, etc. The
level is tipped disproportionately (and we cross the line) when we fail to set
boundaries and know when we have reached our capacity. We push and push…until
sometimes, we meet greed.
So where
does one draw the line between gratefulness and greed?
Start with
Psalm 37:4, which tells us “Take delight
in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart.” Don’t miss
the preface. We are to first take delight in the Lord. When we do that, we grow
closer to Him. As we grow closer, we become filled with gratefulness and begin
to better understand his will for our lives. Our desires build on that. Those
things that the Lord has placed inside of us. Our desires will guide and direct
us. Our desires (those given by the Lord, not self-proclaimed) are already
guaranteed.
But….we have
to know when to slow down. Know when to pump the brakes. Know when to stop.
Remain grateful with our provisions, skills, and achievements. Find our why. Go
after our desires. But, be very careful, not to cross the threshold into greed.
Accept the promise and move on.
Nice piece of writing..
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